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How to Own the Room with Confidence

Let’s get one thing straight—public speaking isn’t about being perfect. In fact, some of the best speakers make mistakes, stumble over their words, and even forget what they were going to say. And guess what? It doesn’t matter! Why? Because great public speaking is about connecting with your audience and delivering a message that sticks. Public speaking is a skill that can transform your leadership abilities and boost your career. 

Here’s the thing: leadership isn’t just about making decisions or managing a team—it’s about inspiring others. And what’s the best way to inspire? You guessed it: through effective communication.

So, let’s dive in.

Why Great Public Speaking is Key to Leadership Success

Great leaders aren’t just good at talking; they’re good at making people feel something. They know how to capture attention, keep people engaged, and, most importantly, deliver a message that others will remember and repeat. Public speaking is the most powerful tool in your leadership toolbox.

Want to know the secret? It’s not about what you say—it’s about what people hear. Your message has to resonate. Great communication is about shaping how people feel and what they take away from the conversation.

How to Capture Attention from the Start

Here’s the deal: first impressions matter—big time. When you start a presentation or speech, you have about 10 seconds to hook your audience. After that, they’re either tuned in or scrolling through their phones. So, how do you get people to put their phones down and actually listen?

The secret is in the hook. Start your speech with a powerful question, a surprising fact, or even a funny anecdote. Think about it like this: if you wouldn’t want to hear the beginning of your own talk, why should anyone else? Once you’ve captured their attention, it’s much easier to keep it.

Pro tip: Next time you’re giving a presentation, start by asking a thought-provoking question. This immediately gets people thinking and invested in what you have to say next.

Making Public Speaking Feel Like a Conversation

One of the biggest mistakes people make is thinking that public speaking is all about performance. Newsflash—it’s not! Public speaking is just a fancy term for having a conversation with a group of people. Think about your favorite speakers. Do they stand rigidly behind a podium and drone on with formalities? Nope! They’re relaxed, conversational, and they make you feel like they’re speaking directly to you.

Here’s how you can do it: instead of treating your audience like a crowd, imagine you’re talking to a group of friends. Use natural language, ask questions, and make sure your tone is light and engaging. The more conversational you are, the more likely your audience is to connect with you.

How Leadership and Public Speaking Go Hand-in-Hand

Let’s face it: if you want to be a great leader, you have to master public speaking. It’s not just about speaking at conferences or delivering big speeches—it’s about the day-to-day communication that defines your leadership. Whether you’re leading a team meeting, presenting a new idea to stakeholders, or giving a keynote speech at an industry event, your ability to communicate clearly and confidently is what sets you apart as a leader. Think about it: would you follow someone who seems unsure or stumbles through their words? Probably not.

Great leaders understand that public speaking isn’t just a box to check; it’s the foundation of how they inspire action, motivate their team, and create a vision that others can rally around. Public speaking isn’t just about talking to people; it’s about engaging them, making them feel seen and heard, and most importantly, motivating them to take action. Every time you speak as a leader, whether in a boardroom or in front of a large crowd, you’re either reinforcing trust and credibility or chipping away at it.

The Power of Communication in Everyday Leadership

Lastly, consider how essential communication is in leadership scenarios. Think of CEOs delivering company-wide updates, political leaders addressing the nation, or even managers running team meetings. The ones who communicate their ideas clearly and passionately are the ones who foster trust, drive change, and inspire loyalty. They can explain complex concepts in ways that are easy to understand, making them relatable. They can paint a vivid picture of the future, encouraging others to not only believe in it but to work towards it.

Public speaking isn’t just about formal events; it’s woven into the everyday moments that shape your leadership. Whether you’re motivating your team during a tough project or presenting a vision for the future, how you communicate will either rally people behind you or leave them feeling disconnected.

Take Your Public Speaking to the Next Level

Certainly, public speaking doesn’t have to be intimidating. With a few simple strategies—like capturing attention early, keeping your message clear, and using storytelling—you can master your communication and boost your leadership skills at the same time. Remember, the best speakers aren’t perfect, they’re real. They connect with their audience, they make mistakes, and they keep going.

Ready to take your public speaking game to the next level? Check out this article on how to make your ideas unforgettable to captivate your audience.

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Ivan Wanis Ruiz

Speaker | Emcee | Trainer

I am on a mission to END BORING, and I need your help.  How amazing would it be if every time you spoke, people not only listened, but remember and acted on what you say?  That is why I wrote this blog, to give you tools to be the person that is fearless and commands attention.

~ Ivan

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